Why Is Your Erection Firm When Masturbating And Fails When Having Sex With A Girl?

Why Is Your Erection Firm When Masturbating And Fails When Having Sex With A Girl?

The fact that your erection fails with women means that erectile dysfunction is psychological and is not caused by a disease of the circulatory system. Why can a masturbation be easier for men than sex? You know yourself best and you know what techniques will lead to a quick orgasm. In a home environment, you don't have to be distracted by anything other than imagination. On the other hand, when having sex with a real woman, you often deliberately try to last as long as possible, devoting yourself to foreplay and the overall satisfaction of your partner. You can often be disturbed by the fear of criticism or failure to meet expectations.

Why Does An Erection Fail Only With A Partner?

Here is a list of common reasons why your erection only fails when in contact with a woman:

  • The partner is always the same

Although your partner takes care of herself and is very attractive, the level of your excitement can be still affected by her choice of hairstyle, hair color, dress and her performance. Especially, if your partner is not a fan of experiments, over time, you may have trouble getting excited, as compared to your own ideas of completely different women, positions or new erotic toys.

  • The partner is not very experienced or is too shy

Especially in case of a young girl, you may encounter her shyness to try out new practices. She may be inexperienced and struggle with fear, or have bad past experiences. If you are limited to a missionary position for a long time, your arousal may decrease and erection problems may occur.

  • It will usually take longer for the partner

It takes men an average of 5 minutes to reach orgasm. Women need much longer and if they are not relaxed enough, they may not reach orgasm at all. This can lead to reduced sexual pleasure, and while trying to please your partner, you may have trouble maintaining your own erection.

  • The partner may not know the correct stimulation technique

Each of us is unique, and as so, if you don't talk openly with your partner about what you like, she can stimulate you too quickly, slowly, strongly or weakly. Talk to your partner and ideally show her exactly what you like.

What Is The Effect Of Pornography On Failing Erection?

Pornography is a great inspiration for your ideas. However, it also causes the problem to get worse, as you can see dozens of positions, various women and all possible sexual practices in a few minutes. With so many diverse sensations, your brain needs ever more erotic stimuli to be able to get aroused.

The availability of pornography is also a problem. You can get satisfaction whenever you feel like it and as so you don't have to wait for your wife to come home. When, after all you've seen, your wife comes home, the desire for normal and unrooted sex may no longer be the same.

Last but not least, comparing and undermining self-confidence is the most serious of problems. Porn actors have perfect bodies, long endurance, their partners express their satisfaction loudly with multiple orgasms and can try 5 different positions in five minutes. All of this can cause frustration with one's own performance, which is unlikely to equal the recorded or unrealistic scenes we see in pornography.

Erection Fails When You Think About It Failing

If you masturbate alone, you won't even of not getting excited. If you doubt yourself when having sex with a partner, it´s harful to oneself. You should to go on a date expecting a great sex, as stress and anxiety of potential future failure or nervousness can completely destroy your libido.

What Can You Do To Improve Your Erection When Un Physical Contact With A Woman?

  • Stop watching porn and don't put pressure on yourself. Stimulate your brain with ideas of your real partner and try to lure her in on your meeting.  
  • Talk together about the right stimulation techniques, which are pleasant for you and guarantee a firm erection. Try to talk to your partner about the sexual practices you want to try and that can help you get more excited.
  • Satisfy your partner first. Try get your partner excited first and then dedicate yourself to your own needs. Feel free to wait until she reaches orgasm and then stop holding back and distracting yourself whether your performance is long enough or good enough.
  • Don't be stressed if an erection ever fails. If your penis fails to keep a strong erection, let your partner stimulate you again and your erection to return. An understanding partner will definitely not laugh.

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